When You Stop Caring Results Come - What You Can Learn From The Film Jaws
To get the women you desire, you need to have a mentality of an alpha.
An animal is always used as a representation of the alpha mentality. Primarily, the alpha lion and the alpha wolf. And I love it.
But no one talks about the Great White Shark.
It’s the alpha of the ocean.
In my opinion, they’re more treacherous than any other animal symbolic of the alpha.
The Great White is the most feared mammal in the ocean. They’re the most predatory species in the deep blue sea. It’s my favorite animal.
I mean, just look at this muthafucka….
I mean damn...it strikes fear in my heart just looking at it!!!!
I know you guys remember the horror movie Jaws. Jaws struck a chord of fear in the hearts of moviegoers across the nation…so much that people were terrified going to the beach!!
Black folks don’t really fuck with swimming too much anyways, but after Jaws released in theaters, black folks were afraid to even pour a glass of water out of the sink! Jaws had us that shook of anything related to water!
In all seriousness…the the Great White is powerful, nimble, ferocious, intelligent and high inquisitive and relentless.
Similar to how you should approach your life.
I read a lot about sharks and watch a lot of documentaries on them. Aside from them just looking cool as fuck, something else stood out about them.
Great Whites must keep moving to stay alive.
All sharks take oxygen from the water in order to breathe. But Great Whites can’t pump water over their gills. So to stay alive, they have to constantly swim forward. This keeps water filtering through their gills, so they’re always taking in oxygen to breathe.
Let that fuckin sink in.
Great Whites can NEVER stop moving. If they stop moving—they DIE.
They have to always be on the move, always on the hunt. It’s in their DNA.
And this how you have to look at your interactions with women.
YOU STOPPED MOVING!!
Comfort is a relationship killer.
It’s why she kicked you out of the apartment, it’s why she’s become distant, it’s why she said she’s met someone else.
You got too lax, you got too comfortable, you lost sight of moving closer to your purpose or you never bothered to find one altogether.
You cared too much! You became needy and placed your woman on a pedestal. When that happens, your woman becomes distant.
Let me put you up on a secret..
When you stop caring results come. That’s right. It may not make sense, but it’s the truth. If you want to your bring the passion back in to your relationship or you want re-attract your exgirlfriend who broke up with you, you have to stop caring.
She doesn’t want to be put on the pedestal. She doesn’t want the spotlight on her. She wants you to be focused outward, away from her onto your life’s mission—though she’ll NEVER tell you this.
She doesn’t want to be paramount in your life. When you place that status onto her in your relationship, you get predictable and comfortable.
And when YOU get too comfortable, so does your lady. We say it all the time in our videos, women have to fucking chase you.
And when they’re comfortable, they’re not chasing.
I don’t care if you just met her five minutes ago or fifty five years ago...
She must be chasing.
And if you’re not constantly moving, constantly evolving, keeping your eyes on the prize—which is your mission, NOT your woman—then the fire in your relationship will burn out.
To keep your woman uncomfortable, to keep her chasing, to keep her guessing, you have to keep moving forward.
Never become comfortable.
Never stop swimming. It keeps women on their toes. And they love it.
The most alpha of men understand this concept. It’s something we discuss in our most recent video….
Be like fuckin JAWS!!!
When you stop caring about the outcome is when you’ll unlock the keys to not only this game with women, but with this game of life.
Not caring shows strength, it shows certainty, it shows that YOU DEFINE YOURSELF.
It’s about you and your path.
Most people never understand then you stop caring results come. It’s a powerful concept to understand.
And to not care means that you’re not concerned with the past or what’s happening around you in the present moment. You’re unmoved by it all.
Because you’re moving forward.
Because you have a job to do.
Because you smell blood.
And now it’s time to feed.
Because if you STOP moving forward—that’s when it’s over.